RELATIONSHIP GOALS!?

Firstly, I must state my utmost distaste for this "en-trend"word! Like we don't have enough problems of our own, we are then asked to place our happiness level on superficies (Am not ready *side eye*). Anyhow, we are not approaching this topic with quarrel on that note instead on our subtle sanctimonious jazz! Hehehe.

Hmmn! I can't start imagining the number of "world wars" that will ensue this coming weeks of the love season when folks finally find out that even their boo has a boo! *rotflmao* #calamity. Perhaps, all the blame should go to the main culprit in this matter...St.Val himself :(. I believe for a relationship to thrive...It takes two to tango, so all those calling others; snatchers, haters, cheats etc are simply wasting necessary effort on futile ventures, those rants will not change a thing as you either have the option of walking out of the situation entirely or taking actions to remedy the situation #talkischeap. Also, it is worthy to note that no one can take away from you what is truly yours #nuffsaid.

Perhaps (please bear with me, we will be using a lot of this word today seeing that my annoying self is the least of your problems :p), the amount of time dedicated into full scale private investigations and pretense of bliss, should be time dedicated to understanding and bonding with one's partner...Aye or Nay? the "Ayes" always have it ;D. Letting insecurity flourish in a relationship is akin to pouring water on lit coal...the flame will eventually go out.

Perhaps, trying to mirror idealistic scenarios that bear little or no semblance to your real life situation is the bane of the problem. How often do we ask each other fundamental questions and evaluate compatibility before we jump into bed bestow each with endless titles and endearments! Most times, we really haven't figured out who we truly are not to talk of figuring out someone else...#Rocketscience.

Perhaps, before going on a mad rage about being single, cheated on, jilted etc we should ask ourselves what role we played in the mix seeing that we weren't by-standers. By the way, please don't ask why men people cheat...that's one question I am glad I don't have an answer to (can't kill myself before my time lol). I believe going into a new relationship, we should give ourselves time enough to leave our baggage behind and allow it remain there before forging ahead...a very common mistake that can be a real game-changer.

Perhaps, listening to your friends' advice and following so hook-line-sinker isn't always the wisest choice. This is not to say friends do give bad advice, more often than not you will find them valuable but only you truly knows the complexion what your situation is and it will only be cowardice to fault others for the ignorance of a bad judgement.

Perhaps, this is the end of this topic as we can't do more than this but to stress less and laugh more. Happy Vals folks...may our hearts remain true *muah*.